Monday, December 28, 2009

Postings from fathers

I have recently been getting some posts from fathers.

If you guys are reading this, then why is it that you want to steal children from their mothers?

My ex only cares about spending time with his kids. He doesn't care what this is doing to me. He is totally selfish.

Please think about what you men are doing. These shard care laws are really bad. They are separating something that is natural. Children belong with their mothers.

A child spending time with their father, especially if she is a girl, IS JUST NOT NATURAL.

Get over it. Move on with your life and leave us poor mothers alone.

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Xmas day

My ex was begging me to see the kids on Xmas day. I said No!

He even went to my parent's place and cried.

At the end of the day it is my right to decide what is best for my kids, and I truly believe that he sexually abused my son. Imagine what he could do to my daughter if he was alone wit her.

I didn't do anything wrong. Its a mother's instinct and experts have agreed with me. I have seen so many videos on youtube of amzing mother's that have lost their kids to child molesters, because family law in this country in anti-mother.

I didn't do anything wrong. I was brave to do what I did.

Barbara Biggs

Just to let you know that I got in touch with Barbara Biggs and she said I should immediately stop all contact for the father because this is definitely a case of child sexual abuse.

I knew it was but no one else believed me. Everyone accused me of lying, even my parents.

This will wipe the smile off my ex's face. No one will mess with me and get away with it!

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Its NOT my fault!

To all you women who have written to me, it's not my fault! Its my ex's fault. He is to blame NOT me!

Anyway, my neighbour did it too so why should't I? If anyone should be accused of lying its my neighbour who freely admits it, not me.

And before you accuse me of anything, have you seen the videos on YouTube by Barbara Biggs? It seems that all mothers who claimed child sexual abuse are now NOT believed. It's these videos that convinced me that I had to do something.

The laws should be changed to the way they were, so thank God there are women like Barbara Biggs around who knows which side she is on.

Friday, November 27, 2009

Department of Child Protection

I need some help.

I am in a bit of trouble with the Department of Child Protection.

I have been accused by the case manager of lying and fabricating my accusations of child abuse.

For anyone who knows me they know this is bullshit. Thus is just another example of how John Howard's laws are discriminating against mothers.

I need to get in touch with a Barbara Biggs. I heard that she believes all mothers who allege child abuse, no questions asked.

This is serious because they are claiming that my son told them that I told him to lie about his father. This is bulldhit again. I think the Department of Child Protection have planned this with my ex so they can steal my kids from me.

Please, I need someone who can help me prove these allegations. How can I get in touch with Barbara Biggs? Thanks

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Really good news!

I got a call today from a family advisor called Kathy. She is from our local Family Relationship Centre.

She told me that my ex had contacted them and asked for mediation.

She called to ask if I would attend.

I told her No! and explained why.

She listened carefully to everything I said and agreed with me. She also complained that the new laws were stuffed and believes that mothers should not be forced into mediation.

But she said that this is the law now and I should go.

I kept on complaining and she gave me some advise, on the hush hush.

She said if I said that I am scared of him or that he has sexually abused the kids, that I DON"T have to go to mediation, and there is nothing he can do about it.

I told her my fears of what he is doing to my son when he is alone with him, and she agreed that I should stop all contact immediately.

She said its better to be safe than sorry. She said if he complained then he can pay to see the boy once a month at a contact centre while being fully supervised.

I just didn't know about this! I thought that even if they were sexually abusing children that you still had to share custody with them.

This is great news. I just wanted to share with everyone in case they are being forced to go to mediation as well.

Cyn

Friday, October 23, 2009

Finally people who understand me

Thanks to all the gals who have written.

Finally people who understands me. Everyone seems to be against me, even my parents.

They think my ex is a great guy. If he was so great then why did I have to look elsewhere.

I just feel that it is so unfair that I have to share my kids with him. He had his chance and he blew it. Now I want to get on with my life. I don't need the hassle of shared care. Its just not fair on me and what I want to do with my life.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Protests against Shared Care

I saw a news story a few month ago with all these mothers protesting for all the thousands of children that have been murdered in this country by their fathers since these new shared care laws came into effect. I think they lit a candle for every murderded child.

I don't know what John Howard was thinking when he put such a stupid law in place.

I want to protest like these mothers did on tv. I want my ex to know that I am not going to back off and let him get his way.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

A mother should be supported unconditionally

A mother should be supported unconditionally. Why should I have to explain anything to anyone? I gave birth to my kids. How could I do anything that could harm them?

I do the hardest job there is. All he does is give us money. Big deal! I sometimes feel like I am his babysitter. I just look after his kids and he gets them for the good times. Did he ever say thank you to me? No, he doesn't care about me or respect my opinion, he only wants to see his kids.

I stopped him from seeing my boy this weekend. I can't do everything by his timetable. I wanted to spend some time with my son so I did the right thing. He can see him next fortnight.

I went to find some support from my parents but I had a big argument with my mother today. She just doesn't understand how hard it is to be a single mother. She always sides with my ex and makes him out to be such a great guy. I feel so shitty. She should be supporting me and everything I do.

I just feel so shitty today.

Cynthia

Sunday, October 18, 2009

I think he is sexually abusing my son

Thanks everyone. I just feel better hearing from you all and knowing that I have people who support me.

I have been searching into what I should do on the internet, and last night I went to a website called YouTube and I searched on family law and Australia. I found all these videos of Australian mothers who have had their children taken away by the Family Court and given to the child molesting fathers.

This is a national disgrace! Why are all these kids being taken away from such good mothers and being put in the hands of child molesters? This stupid law has to be changed.

I knew these Howard laws were bad, but I could not believe that the Courts don't care if the father has previously sexually molested the children.

I was thinking of contacting DoCS myself because I am starting to have suspicions about my ex's behaviour when he is alone with my son. I recently saw my son touching his penis while I was giving him a bath, and on the internet I read that this could be a sign of child sexual abuse.

But now I am scared to contact DoCS or the police because I am afraid that they will give full custody of my son to his father.

I am really confused here. My mother says that I am being malicious, but I am convinced that something is going on. This is something that a mother just knows.

Are there any child sexual abuse experts that I can take my son to?

Cyn

Friday, October 16, 2009

NO to Medition

I decided that I will not agree to mediation with my ex.

If I agree he will see this as a weakness on my part and this will encourage him. He has already brainwashed my son by buying him toys and taking him to the rugby and stuff like that, and he will do the same to my daughter if I gave him half the chance.

I have to protect my children and if that means going to court then I will do it.

I do not work so does that mean that I qualify for legal aid automatically? It's all based on your income isn't it, or do they consider things like the value of your home and your other assets?

I really appreciate everyone's support in this. Its really confusing for me right now but with your help I feel confident that I am doing the best thing for my kids.

Thanks

Cyn

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Mediation or Court

My ex just called me and he said that because I do not agree to attend mediation that he can now take me to Court. He said that this is the law and my refusal to attend mediation will look bad in Court.

Is this true? Do I have to go to mediation by law?

Help someone.

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

I will not attend Mediation

I decided that I will not agree to mediation with my ex.

If I agree he will see this as a weakness on my part and this will encourage him. He has already brainwashed my son by buying him toys and taking him to the rugby and stuff like that, and he will do the same to my daughter if I gave him half the chance.

I have to protect my children and if that means going to court then I will do it.

I do not work so does that mean that I qualify for legal aid automatically? It's all based on your income isn't it, or do they consider things like the value of your home and your other assets?

I really appreciate everyone's support in this. Its really confusing for me right now but with your help I feel confident that I am doing the best thing for my kids.

Thanks

Cynth

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Child Custody - Australia

This is my blog Child Custody laws and why they should be repealed.

My name is Cynthia,

I am separated from my partner of 9 years. We have two children, a 7 year old boy and a 3 year old girl.

My ex wants shared care for our son for 5 days out of 14, and for now because of her age he is happy to keep seing our daughter two days a fortnight.

I feel really uncomfortable about shared care and don't think it is natural for my son to be away from me for so long.

I am looking for online forums, email lists and things like that of women in similar situations to me who are sick of these stupid new family laws and want to do something for their kids.

So far my ex has asked me to attend a family relationship centre for mediation. I refused. I don't think we have anything to mediate. I am not going to be forced into something that is bad for my kids.

But I need help from other mothers.