Monday, December 28, 2009

Postings from fathers

I have recently been getting some posts from fathers.

If you guys are reading this, then why is it that you want to steal children from their mothers?

My ex only cares about spending time with his kids. He doesn't care what this is doing to me. He is totally selfish.

Please think about what you men are doing. These shard care laws are really bad. They are separating something that is natural. Children belong with their mothers.

A child spending time with their father, especially if she is a girl, IS JUST NOT NATURAL.

Get over it. Move on with your life and leave us poor mothers alone.

9 comments:

  1. I think this might be better coming from my 14 year old daughter, but what the hey... I hope to hell you never lose a child Cynthia, thats a pain I have been through, my 3 daughter love and respect me, unfortunately miss 14 doesnt hold the same for her mother. Despite everything the mother has done wrong, I try and faciltate that relationship even to the extent of trying to have them sit down with a psych together and nut out their issues. Children belong with their parents Cynthia, if you want to raise children on your own, go to a sperm bank. I didn't want that, i've had it forced onto me, but it feels like the most natural thing. I pity your son, what happens when he has only daughters and separates, will you still hold the same values? "he doesnt care what this is doing to me. He is totally selfish" do you care what it is doing to him, are you not being totally selfish. You have a hide blaming the shared parenting laws on men, the government made those laws, apparently in the best interests of children! seek help, please, I've never read such a sad post.

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  2. You're a tool.

    "My ex only cares about spending time with his kids. He doesn't care what this is doing to me. He is totally selfish. "

    You're fucking selfish and you're hurting those kids you greedy fucking cow.

    Shoot yourself, feminist pig.

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  3. "My ex only cares about spending time with his kids. He doesn't care what this is doing to me. He is totally selfish."

    Oh no, he isn't abandoning his kids! That's horrible!

    "Please think about what you men are doing. These shard care laws are really bad. They are separating something that is natural. Children belong with their mothers."

    Do they? I thought children were born by two parents (or at least parts of parents) and were intended to be raised by both. Or at least that's what Judeo-Christian society dictates.


    "A child spending time with their father, especially if she is a girl, IS JUST NOT NATURAL."

    Give me a break. Because all men are secretly pedophiles, right?

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  4. My step son is treated like rubbish by his bio mum, she does not have a maternal bone in her body. She gets $1000+ per month which gets spent on her horses and building her new house. My step son has hand me down school clothes that are torn and her other bio son and step daughter get everything brand new.
    Why should that piss poor excuse of a mother have more rights than my husband?
    Being a female does not mean you are the better or more qualified parent.
    "Poor Mothers" what a load of crap at least "Mothers" have rights

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  5. Cynthia, you are so poisonous to your children, that you do not know it.

    Children have a fundamental need to be loved by BOTH parents. Daughters often are closer to their fathers, just as sons are often closer to their mothers.

    What you are doing in your selfishness can REALLY muck up your children's future lives. If you don't believe me just watch some programs about damaged children: the BBC's The World's Strictest Parents is a good example, as you clearly do not have the ability to talk to children face to face.

    Look at the damage you behaviour can do, and the results it produces.

    Wake up to the bitch you have become and change before it is too late!

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  6. eerthing my Chinese wife teaches my son is wrong and she lets me spend no time alone with him. He is being brainwashed by an uneducated ruthless Asian woman. The only time if ever I get to go out with my son I must take her along. And then the events are just so bad because she is there trying to run things,. She is going to run nothing wit the last breath in my both I will kick her but back to ASia and have my son to raise as an American in a normal American way. This possesive alienating swisted Asian womans perspective comes from hell. I will save my son if it is the last thing I do. You Asian women think your tough you have neot even seen tough yet but its coming like a step in the night and you wont know what happened.;

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  7. Cynthia go f*** yourself and have a child alone if those are your views. Custody is about your child's welfare not YOU. If you don't like it you should have kept your legs shut. And before you make the assumption that I'm a man, I'm not. I'm a woman who respects men as equal partners and parents. You my dear are nothing but a bitter selfish tart.

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  8. Cynthia your comments verge very closely to child abuse. Your completely neglecting the psychological needs of your child. You are confusing your want for sole custody with the best interest of your child. I feel sorry for your children, and hope they don't hear you saying things like that. The psychological damage that you are inflicting on your children is horrible.

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  9. The big problem with parenting in Australia is parents who think that their rights far outweigh their children's rights. Cynthia, you and your ex need to sit down and work out what's best for your children. Considering you believe that your child is being stolen from you, shows that you are an extremely immature and probably didn't have the maturity to have a child in the first place. But that has happened and you and your ex have the responsibility to parent this child. I feel really sorry for your children, they deserve far more that you can provide. Get over it, grow up, and think of your children. That's what matters. It's not about you. It's about your children. That you think your children are being stolen shows you think your children are your property. They aren't a television. You don't seem to have the intelligence or maturity to realise that children aren't a possession. I feel sorry for your children.

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