Its NOT my fault!

To all you women who have written to me, it's not my fault! Its my ex's fault. He is to blame NOT me!

Anyway, my neighbour did it too so why should't I? If anyone should be accused of lying its my neighbour who freely admits it, not me.

And before you accuse me of anything, have you seen the videos on YouTube by Barbara Biggs? It seems that all mothers who claimed child sexual abuse are now NOT believed. It's these videos that convinced me that I had to do something.

The laws should be changed to the way they were, so thank God there are women like Barbara Biggs around who knows which side she is on.

Department of Child Protection

I need some help.

I am in a bit of trouble with the Department of Child Protection.

I have been accused by the case manager of lying and fabricating my accusations of child abuse.

For anyone who knows me they know this is bullshit. Thus is just another example of how John Howard's laws are discriminating against mothers.

I need to get in touch with a Barbara Biggs. I heard that she believes all mothers who allege child abuse, no questions asked.

This is serious because they are claiming that my son told them that I told him to lie about his father. This is bulldhit again. I think the Department of Child Protection have planned this with my ex so they can steal my kids from me.

Please, I need someone who can help me prove these allegations. How can I get in touch with Barbara Biggs? Thanks

Really good news!

I got a call today from a family advisor called Kathy. She is from our local Family Relationship Centre.

She told me that my ex had contacted them and asked for mediation.

She called to ask if I would attend.

I told her No! and explained why.

She listened carefully to everything I said and agreed with me. She also complained that the new laws were stuffed and believes that mothers should not be forced into mediation.

But she said that this is the law now and I should go.

I kept on complaining and she gave me some advise, on the hush hush.

She said if I said that I am scared of him or that he has sexually abused the kids, that I DON"T have to go to mediation, and there is nothing he can do about it.

I told her my fears of what he is doing to my son when he is alone with him, and she agreed that I should stop all contact immediately.

She said its better to be safe than sorry. She said if he complained then he can pay to see the boy once a month at a contact centre while being fully supervised.

I just didn't know about this! I thought that even if they were sexually abusing children that you still had to share custody with them.

This is great news. I just wanted to share with everyone in case they are being forced to go to mediation as well.

Cyn